Confusing Contradictions

There is always a Better Tomorrow -One of my favorite lines. The contradiction to this is - Tomorrow never comes. One doesn't know which one is true or both are true? What are the limitations of its applications When going through bad phase or having under perform in a match, You may say There is always a Better Tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes, one may use this is to  Enjoy the present Today. To live life to its fullest. One may want to finish off the task before Today ends.

Before going to main talk, let me try to site one more example- 'Its now or never !!' , 'Better Late Than Never !!' If your boss is sitting on your head, you know its now or never, but if you miss to visit your home on a special occasion, then you better go next time. Well, its still confusing for me from the above words. Better move to main subject.

People often say  change yourself, grow up, be mature and sensible and what not. List goes on. Parents and at times we too compare and say be like that XYZ and so on. I have also heard that a person should be as they are. Just be yourself- that's what is said. As soon as person tries to be himself/herself the entire world stands against them, at least in most of the cases. There are some set of customs that one expects other to follow and vice - a - versa. The one who continuously keeps changing as dictated by others, wins the society superficially and always looses the battle within oneself. Those be themselves, take a bow for them, they really go a long way, though alone, but they really reach the stars. They are Legends only after they departure from here. As long as alive, they are treated as Aliens and an unwanted entity.

Then there are Smarties. These are people who keep constantly changing. They actually keep on changing their natural character. They just blend everything nicely. They are neither a looser nor a winner within themselves. They just smartly negotiate this life's tenure Joyfully. At the last. People who keep changing ti,e to time. At times they change. At times they decide to just be what they are. At the end they are just left no where. They are changed so much so that they themselves don't know what their true character was. Society neglects them just because that person himself is actually lost and no one shows them the true path.

At the end I realise that I wanted to write this for some specific purpose and at the end I end up writing something else. I get this question at end - Should one change or not?? If change is to be done, themn whom to take guidance from? What changes to bring about. If you think no change is reuired, then how do you overcome the people who keep poking you to get change??

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